Some refer to them as friends,friends here means they know what friendship means and entails, some would refer to them as covenant relationships,this is because they have a part in their vision or future, as you will have it called. I like to call them my inner circle, this because they are next to my biological family,and by no means a coincidence in my life,they are there for a purpose and of course they are my friends ;).
From the above you will see that the name you give them doesn’t really matter as long as you understand this set of people I’m talking about,they are far from being acquaintances, gist pals or party buddies,they are your real niggas…lol (for lack of a better word) these set of people ,I will say again are not found in your life by coincidence,you let them in, and this is probably because they have helped you or still helping you or you got inspired by some of them and have decided to keep them.
Here is my thought,Anyone that doesn’t add value or doesn’t see you valuable shouldn’t be in your inner circle….please think on this,you could have a counter thought. There is no need forcing anyone to see you valuable and there is no reason having people without value in your circle. If they don’t believe in you and give you all the support required they shouldn’t be in your circle either.
I’m concerned on the support part,this is because whether you like it or not,they have a degree of influence in your life. I mean ,it your circle,these set of people have influence over you one way or another and you need just the right people influencing you…..you really do. If they do not show you a form of support which you of course expect ,you will probably feel a little down or in some cases insecure. It is great deal to support those in your circle,support their dreams,tell them what you think they are doing that is good and what they are doing that isn’t good enough or at all,give advice if needed,Do not take them away from their call, and be careful the words you say to them,they take it highly important….yes they do..this is because it is coming from you, you never know how important you are until one of you begins to tell how great a help you have been,those little words or push you gave.
Support their BUSINESSES, SHOWS,EVENTS,CAREER. Buy their goods first, if any of them bakes patronize them when you need to get a cake or whatever pastry,if any one sews or makes bag,have their collection in your closet,if any one them runs a show be sure to attend even if it is one,seeing you boost their confidence. Whatever capacity support your inner circle, help them grow,let love in, don’t get jealous,you all have different roles to play in the circle. Another great support you will be giving those in your circle is calling them to order , we all need this once in a while ,when one of you isn’t acting as expected it is your sole duty to talk some sense into such person,it will hurt at first but it will go a long way,not only should sweet words be shared among you guys,corrective measures should be engaged also.
The best you should do is pray for your inner circle,God could show you something they could be blind to,Gain their trust.
PS: if you do not have the above set of people in your life,work on your self and have you one or two,quantity doesn’t matter quality does,they are needed.Happy new month!!!
love you all plenty! kisses